F4MW, I've been an outsider looking in on your Sitch and I'm gonna throw my penny in the hat and say that if you fight this your just going to drive your W away further! It's a classic human reaction "no you can't have that" just makes us want it more but if you give them what they want they get bored of it after a while. I remember as a child kicking a screaming because I didn't get my own way and I don't think that ever leaves us?

Can I just ask - if you knew before the wedding what you know and are going through now would you have still committed to marrying your W?

I think this is a question we should all ask ourselves and my betting is 100% of us would because we wouldn't be on this forum otherwise.

I wonder if you agree that it's better to have loved and lost than to have not loved at all?

M - 37 W - 35
T - 11 M - 5.5
SD13 D10 S4
ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12
Moved out 7 Dec 12
At present - Being the best dad i can be.