I'm not sure if no movement is good, it depends on the reason for the no movement. I think she's under the impression all the paperwork is with me. In which case, I would be seen as the delayer. It is still what I want, but nothing W has done or said lately has indicated reconciliation is even on the table at all. I'm trying to have no expectations and still continue to GAL and enjoy my own life.
Well as I've posted to you before, I'm in a similar sitch. W has said several times that the paperwork would be forthcoming, and yet to date I still have nothing. What you want is what I want- just to know SOMETHING. Is she on the fence about it and having second thoughts? Or is she just too busy to deal with it? Or does she just not realize that the ball is still in her court? Here's the thing, if your W was really in a hurry then she would call her L and confirm that the paperwork has been sent. She would be calling her L to see if you had sent the paperwork back. Or maybe calling you. Regardless, silence from her end means that she is not pushing right now. I have chosen to just STFU and be patient. It's OK for me, because I am able to do it with ZERO expectations that it means anything. I guess that's what I advise you, if you can be patient and have no expectations then leave it be. She can hardly blame you for delaying when you never even received anything. But if it's keeping you up nights and eating at you, then go ahead and tell her you haven't received it and ask her what's up.
