That is how it would feel to me if a divorce was completed, like it just cancels out & negates all that our marriage ever was.
The way I look at it is this- W and I shared many great years together and brought 3 incredible children into this world, and the world is that much better for it. We've grown along different paths over the years and W's path is leading her in a different direction that she feels she must pursue. That's her choice and who am I to prevent her from following her heart. So this chapter closes and another begins. The new chapter probably won't be better or worse, just different. But it doesn't take anything away from the beautiful tapestry we wove together.
