I get it BIG time!! My W did all those things. Your W is hurting and hurt people hurt people. I even got to that point and oddly enough that's when she started to come around, invite me over to her place asking me to sleep in the same bed as her and so on. In my case there was never OM that I know of. That would have certainly proved to be a huge task but what I do think is I dealt with the EA as an IDEAL if that makes sense. She just kept saying theres someone out there that will appreciate me. I thank GOD everyday i didn't have the OM as an issue. The grass isn't greener either, all grass has to be cut and tended to. Hang in there, all I can tell you is if you maintain your dignity be you and noone else and seek God 1st your sitch can change i'm proof. That woman you fell in love with she's still in there some where, she's just under a pile of rumble and ruins just love her. Not because she's your W but because you're a strong man that has a friend that's hurt. At the end of the day no matter what happens you'll be glad you did.
I D my 1st W and I never thought i'd be here with this one, but the truth is I brought 'ME' to this relationship. And they are 2 completely different women, yet I got the same situation because I didn't change.
