labug,

It is not a deal breaker.

I think the signs are her unwillingness to attempt MC, Going to the Gym 2 times a day everyday, The interest in the gym has steadily increased since the S. Before the S she was mentioning a particular trainer she was working out beside a decent amount. I supported her when she spoke of him because she was losing weight and he seemed to be helpful and was not charging her a training fee

Other friends who use that Gym say that he has a child and might be M or have a girlfriend. Not that that matters but It could make an A with him pointless if she has designs on remarrying or having a family. I am choosing to trust her on this.

Back in Oct. I did tell her I thought she was acting as if she had someone already or had someone in mind. She said if she did she would have had him moved in and paying some bills because she had no job.

I haven't mentioned anything since.


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014