No prob man, just trying to help. You're 4 months into sitch and there will be many ups and downs, I just don't want to see you complicate your sitch by involving OP because feelings WILL develop. I was the worst man ever after my 1st W left for OM and I slept w/ many women. Why? Because I could, and it left me so empty when it was all said and done. Even now being a Personal Trainer i'm very careful of my interactions with my female clients. I know this is a tough road but as a man that's now piecing after 9 months of HELL I just won't you to know it is possible because I swore my W was done and not coming back. Our issues don't change 'WE' do.