maybe a bit off the edge?

[labug]

I agree with Sandi, I think this can be saved but we have no crystal ball or magic wand.

You have to do the work. What if you said to her, I need this to go really slow, let's plan to see each other once/week for a while?

Sandi gives you a road map in her awesome post. Your W needs to have the feeling she got from him with you. Your challenge: figure out how to do that and how to keep it alive for the long-term.

There was a post Ruby wrote about wanting to be the one who got "the look" from her H. We all want that, don't we? That look that melts our insides and makes us feel like we are the only other person in the world. Work on giving her "the look."

Too often, those are the things that get lost in a marriage.

We all need a little excitement in our lives.