labug, so glad I stopped by your thread today - lots of good stuff from you and Betsey. Always nice/comforting for us new(er)bies to hear how others ahead of us felt when they were in our shoes. And to know that we are never truly done with self-improvement; we need to do our best and refrain from judging ourselves through the process.
And I LOVE this:
I have a new favorite phrase: Not my circus, not my monkeys.
Hope you have a great day, bug!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14