Huh! wow labug...you're right! no we wouldn't talk about committment if it was a new R... I wasn't thinking of it like that. I suppose I had seen it in a sense that he was maybe cake eating as everyone refers to but I have this new person that does sooo much - lots of effort and shows concideration. So I don't feel used in any form.
Still secretly expecting bad things to happen but they haven't yet.Yes one day at time paul. :-)
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