So.... I thought I had completely detached (still think I am) and I can feel like I'm not bothered about my future. I'm strong and confident but why is it that I just found myself looking at my phone in case he text. I actually have started to feel little butterflies again like in the early days but trying to hide them. :-I is this normal when things start appearing positive?
Yes. You'e starting anew R with someone you think you might like. Doesn't mean you aren't detached, we still have emotions.
[/quote]Don't want rejection after he has shown nice signs. He asked to go to the movies and we are heading out tomorrow night without kids. Also he has shown signs of jealousy whilst I spoke to one of his friends - the friend commented to him how 'hot' I looked. It felt awesome, I had to go to my bedroom once home to fist punch the sky! It's been a while since I felt so good and all I had to do was make sure I looked the best I could!
still no committment talk.
[/quote] Are you enjoying where things are right now? Do you have a timeline? How would commitment talk change things?
If you were dating anyone else would you expect a commitment talk at this point?
Have fun. You can't control the outcome of this.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
