Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

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Thanks Bklynmom and Myway: Myway, it almost brought tears to my eyes to hear support from new posters with such similar situations. It feels that every time I begin to emotionally stabilize, a new bomb is dropped. Just last night, he told me he is losing his job. This is not the emotional bomb drop that the others were, so it really didn't bother me emotionally, but it is something of concern financially. He, as usual, doesn't seem concerned about it. I managed to ask if OW has a job - and he casually mentioned that she recently lost hers too! How convenient. Everyone both on boards and in personal life urges me to get a lawyer - I have been getting advice from friends on options, but still am daunted by doing it - between work and kids and I have a horrible commute, it is hard to fit it in...But I am dealing better emotionally and am getting there - one thing at a time...
Just thank you thank you for support. Good luck to you both in your situations