Divorce on the table, Hoping for Miracle 2

[Groov]

Got the below email today from OM's W who sent this email to all the parties involved, quite unexpectidly...

Not quite sure what to think of it. Want help with this from you all.


OM, Groov's W and Groov:


As the three of you know, we have all been friends for several years.  Those several years represent some very good times and also some not so good times.  It seems that the four of us now find ourselves in a somewhat similar situation in that none of us live with their respective spouse.  


Although I find our situation to be sad (mostly due to the fact that several small children are involved), I believe that this situation was quite predictable.  Previously, as you know, our Church leaders felt that OM and Groov's W were communicating with each other inappropriately.  At the time, OM was being disciplined for inappropriate behavior involving another female.  Groov's W and OM were both told to stop their inappropriate relationship or further discipline would be taken.


Groov and I were talking several weeks back and he mentioned that he believed OM and Groov's W were communicating heavily.  I requested text message records from our phone company; unless the phone company is wrong, there are close to 8,000 text messages between OM and Groov's W over the recent months.  Some messages were prior to Randall no longer living at our home; quite a lot of the messages appear to be into the late, late night and early morning.  Additionally, there are suspicions of video chat apps and face to face visits. 


This is rather disturbing, especially considering the two of you are still married to other people, not to mention in a very recent past you were considered “close friends”. 


I met with our church leader yesterday and relayed the facts to him as I understand them.  I am not sure what he will choose to do from this point on. 


I am not angry; I just find this rather shameful, disturbing and sad. I do also realize that unfortunately from this point on our friendship from my side will have to be dissolved.  Sad end result, but that’s the reality of this situation.



OM's Wife



I have not responded and won't.

Groov