Originally Posted By: Raine
2 hour of online time has now been replaced by 3 hour make-out sessions. I don't remember ever being like this with anyone ever. Sorry FY. Your time is coming buddy.


Honest and for true? And H is ok with this? grin

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Regarding LBB: Do you encourage, or have you considered encouraging H to hang out with LBB? It very well could turn out to be a positive thing for all four of you.

I think back to when W and I first met. I had a small group of friends who I hung out with as did she. As W and I "Became One", we drifted away from our single friends. Eventually, we never seen or talked with them at all. My W and I were closest buddies, doing EVERYTHING together, and hardly ever did things with others on our own.

This led to STAGNATION.

I think it is most important both spouses bring some outside interests/friends into the relationship. This is why I can't cheer my W on enough when she goes out to do stuff, and have been doing more myself.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl