The actual divorce is the big thing for me & feel desperately like I need to prevent it.

I know it's just a piece of paper really but it also makes me feel that our wedding & honeymoon were then just completely pointless, all of the money that was spent on it was in vain & the whole memory of our wedding would be tainted & no longer be a good memory.

Originally Posted By: Wonka
What do you want going forward in regard to W, F4MW? What is your vision here? How does that look like to you?
For my wife, my son & myself to all live together again & have another child with an amazing, loving, harmonious & peaceful marriage/family applying all of my new knowledge & skills from DR & various other relationship/marriage sources.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014