Not-so-pleasant update. Joe sent me a long email explaining how his expenses were skyrocketing and said he would take me to court to decrease the support he's giving me. Then he called in the middle of the night to say he wanted changes done "immediately" instead of next year, as he had implied in his email, so that's when I decided to call my L. I need to protect myself. So now all comm from Joe goes to the L. The L said there's no legal basis for the change, so most likely the judge will not make any changes, but now I find myself having to go through court, which I didn't want to do when we processed the D. It's stressful and unnecessary. All bc of Joe's reckless behavior and decisions. If anyone had told me 3 yrs ago that Joe would be cheating on me (w several women) lying, and suing me, I would've never believed it. Lesson: People's behavior is unpredictable, especially when it comes down to the material. I continue being centered, though it's been difficult. Thank you for listening! Miss you all. Gotta run, but I'll catch up on your sitchs soon!
