Fog City Coaster - trouble hanging on

[2ndTimeHurt]

"Oddly, the one regret that I have is that I didn’t chase at all in the beginning. I am pretty certain that a needy crying whining kind of chasing would never work, but I could have been more persistent about wanting the marriage to work. I know that from the stories here it seems like that never works. But do you ever think that some who do those things in the beginning save their marriages and so we never hear their stories."

My ex told me that the thing that helped her reconsider reconciliation was the fact that I was being persistent with out pressure. Will that work a second time who knows. I know that by the time she asked to try again I was pretty much detached from her.

I know I have to detach to have another reconciliation but it is so damn hard. I wish we all had a fast forward button. Time needs to go by. Time to heal... Time to grow...