I understand how you feel completely. I don't update my sitch, well cause there's nothing to update. I ve voted for presidents more often than speaking to my wife. I got a great new place on the other side of town. Started a new job. And, well I just get up every morning and move along a little further every day.I wish it was different sure, but right now I'm only in control of what I have choices over. I've just realized she's going to do what she wants, and that's without me. I still have to take care of myself. my bills and my son.
A lot of us started "name-DB" FB accounts. A lot of us are friends with michelle weirner-davis. Its a great outlet, we keep it anonymous, and have great fun nightly. Come and join us.
I feel like we're still living the same situation, you and I. I'm not ready to date, but I've learned to drop the rope and just get on with life. Maybe someday it will be different, but for now it is what it is. Every once in a while the hope kicks in, but its short lived, so I do laundry, make dinner, or go shopping for something for the new place. I land on my feet pretty fast. My wife still hasn't pushed for any divorce either, but that's pretty common for her family. They just run, her dad is still married to a woman he hasn't seen in 15 years. I won't let that happen, but it might be soon, as I I'm ready either way.
Sound familiar? Come find me on FB, you'll recognize a lot of names. Great support and have a good time.
