Yes, 25, that makes a lot of sense. So as part of moving on, when the LBS decides to continue to work on their marriage (or stand so to speak) , where does the dating fall into all of this. As a stander, do we still believe in the marriage completely and never date again. Or do we stand as per se, still care and love our WAS, but realise that we cannot simply stay a nun/priest during that time? Are we just as bad as the WAS, if we say we are standing, but then go out and date?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
