I know its difficult Bc I do ittoo. Try not to see the future or mind read. You can't. Predict 100% accurately what H will or will not do with kids. Things change...people change. Might surprise you. You can only work on your side of this. Again still doing this for myself. I'm. No expert.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14