How to set up boundary with moved out husband? This is the question I have been asking since H decided to move out. But still I don't know how to do it.
Before H moved out, he promised that he will take care of kids every night until they go to bed, cook dinner for kids every other night and spend the weekend with them. But apparently he couldn't comply with what he promised.
Though H came back every night, most time he just picked up the kids from school and then did his own things at home. I cooked the dinner, fed the kids, helped their homework and washed the kids. All what H did is eating dinner, washing dishes and helping homework only when requested by kids or me. Otherwise he just sat there until kids went to bed. Last night he even left earlier before the kids went to bed. During weekend he was only there on Saturday. He claimed that he needed to work on Sunday.
I asked him why he couldn't do what he promised? He replied that he needs to work overtime. He also said that he can take care of the kids by himself if I agree to divorce and split the child custody 50/50 every week. But I know he will just let kids eat more fast food and watch more ipad. They will not finish all their homework. H won't have much time to take care of the kids. But H didn't see the problem.
What should I do?
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013
