"It might help if you think of your H as being mentally sick right now, because in many ways he is. He isn't his old, normal self. His thoughts are scattered, his judgment impaired, his moods constantly shifting."
That's a really good point, thank you. I do need to figure out how to shift my perspective on this.
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013
