my wife left the house.

[KarenR]

Hi, I am sorry for the situation you are in. I know it is very painful. It is good that you are dealing with the individual issues that have been difficult for you. Right now everything seems to be on her terms. I would suggest that you talk to a DB coach, as they can help you make a plan of what you can do and say that could stop this 'run away train' and give you an opportunity to be able to work on the relationship. I wish you the best and would be happy to discuss the coaching further with you.