Well it sounds like you're doing all the right things, so good job You're giving him time and space to sort things out, you're not getting caught up in the emotional turmoil between him and OW, you're being very patient. All great things. Have you read DR? There's a chapter on infidelity that I think you would find very helpful. Many marriages have healed from infidelity and often even become stronger than before, but it takes a lot of difficult work to get there. Has your H committed to working on the M? If so then MC is definitely something you should explore. There are some tips in DR about finding a good MC. You might also consider a DB coach, they can offer some very specific advice to you and also help you with locating a good MC. Also Google Retrouvaille, it's a program that I think you could really benefit from. Good luck!
You're giving him time and space to sort things out, you're not getting caught up in the emotional turmoil between him and OW, you're being very patient. All great things. Have you read DR? There's a chapter on infidelity that I think you would find very helpful. Many marriages have healed from infidelity and often even become stronger than before, but it takes a lot of difficult work to get there. Has your H committed to working on the M? If so then MC is definitely something you should explore. There are some tips in DR about finding a good MC. You might also consider a DB coach, they can offer some very specific advice to you and also help you with locating a good MC. Also Google Retrouvaille, it's a program that I think you could really benefit from. Good luck!
