Hi Allofus,

I'm sorry you find yourself here but you will receive tremendous support and advice here. It is a difficult place to be, but you can and will get through this.

I may be lambasted for this but I'm prepared. The comment of "a part of me died" sounds so "final." Don't be frightened off by that phrase. The human spirit is amazingly resilient and we all have thresholds. That is just a way of saying I was shocked/terribly disappointed/ devastated. I point this out because some folks view that term as "finality" and you can survive and thrive. I'm not minimizing her pain, but just noting the word choice.

Take care of yourself and listen to the experts here. They are wonderful!



3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer