I'm sorry you find yourself here but you will be inundated with wonderful advice. I agree with you-it can be a bit confusing as my h complained of showing no affection. I think the key is to see what feels right and be consistent. A little confusing I know, but it's not an exact one size fits all. Take care of yourself and work on you. I
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer