So you wanna play with magic

[Whiterose]

Thank you Heather, I appreciate so much you sharing that with me. I have been thinking about this more, as I do want to learn, and I can see that me passing along the message about dinner is hard for H to twist against me and I'm just ultra quiet now based on past experiences. Linda did mention that I did pass along H's message, "can you let him know I called", just as requested.....I guess it's how we all just see it and, in my case, react to it. I also, while thinking about, don't like the idea that S14 only talks to dad if there's something in it for him, like a dinner, that rubs me the wrong way about S14. It turned out that S14 asked his brother why dad called, he responded to go for dinner, so S14 allowed his dad to talk to him.....I'm going to have to address that. That's not cool to do with anyone. I also explained to S19 that both his dad and his brother are using him to garner info and he needs to not do that....a simple dad wants to talk to you.....is fine and allow them to figure it out.