I would think about talking with her but not now. She just had major, major surgery and her body is on overdrive just to heal.

Give it some time and the situation may take care of itself. If not, open a conversation.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss