As a child of divorce, I just want to say I think you handled this beautifully.
My sister was the one who took the brunt of my dad's irresponsibility. He would convey "messages" to her to pass onto me because I wanted nothing to do with him. It was really unfair to my sis. She was just a kid and didn't need the pressure, on top of everything else she was dealing with, to repair my broken relationship with my dad. That was my dad's job.
My dad, like a lot of the men I read about on this board, seem adept at passing the buck--even to their kids.
I really admire how strong and savvy you are when it comes to your H passing the buck. I love how you simply don't allow him to delegate his responsibilities-at least as much as you are able in this crazy situation.
Hang in,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
