Final phase of losing wife?

[Lifes Twists]

The sending of the letter by the lawyer without her authorization is typical of divorce lawyers. The goal is to cause animosity between you and your W. This will tend to lead to more money for the Lawyer. My wife's lawyer did this tactic. I did not respond directly, but carefully through my lawyer to her lawyer. I would then find a way to tactfully let my W find out that her lawyer was doing things that were cost both of us money and leading no wheres. Eventually my wife ran out of money to fund the divorce and pulled it from the court and fired her attorney. This has given us breathing room for now. If divorce is the final outcome, in many states you can do a do it yourself divorce without any lawyers involved. This works only if you can work together.