Thanks AS, i can see the logic in it i just find it difficult to implement smile Something for me to work on though.
Things have pretty much continued this week with out much interaction which is ok with me. My wife has done some small talk on kids issues which i have listened to and replied, but strayed away from any converstaions on any level, i think you are right us LBS's also need time out, i have just kept busy and maintaining my PMA. I am pretty sure things will come to ahead fairly soon so its an ideal opportunity for me to get back to validating. I dont feel inclined to want to clear the air which normally in my fixer mode i would have done. I also havent even once been inclined to check her facebook page to see how wonderful she is doing so i must be doing something right!
I had a sleepless night earlier in the week but that was down to running 6 miles after 9pm must try to get out earlier in future smile

Thanks H


Me: 39 W: 33
Son:7 Daughter:4
Its Over: March 7th 2013
Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work