separated 6 weeks still on the journey

[bluesgal]

Great job Paul-You are getting this very early in your sitch and that should serve you well.

I spent months doing the wrong things before I discovered, then finally exercised DB principles.

I so wish I knew then what I know now, but that's the way the cookie crumbles.

It is very empowering to take a stand for us, to try to detach (I'm still working on that) and to move forward with our own journey.

What I've really been seeing lately is that WAS often just start their journey once LBS has fully detached and moved on in a sense. That's a tough pill to swallow, so that is where my goals are heading. Detachment, boundaries, time.