Final phase of losing wife?

[kenva]

I gave w my settlement proposal last night. And I felt real good about it. It felt like a huge load was off my shoulders. I got a text from her this morning that she was good with it but need to address certain issues. She wanted to meet for lunch today or tomorrow to discuss it. I waited about 10 min and responded that tomorrow would be better for me. I can meet today but need a little time to get my thoughts together. Anyone with any input on how to handle this? I basically want to tell her that I still care but this situation isn't good for us or our s. She did tell me last night that she had no idea that her lawyer sent the letter last week just a few days after her fathers death. She said she didn't authorize it. I told her I was shocked that it came within that time.