hi 3boyz, I had to write two emails in the past 24 hours that were urgent 1. checking account almost empty until I get paid tomorrow and W is out for the day with D16. 2. Doors at church found unlocked at 5am and lights on. I notified her this happened. Not frills, no follow up. I guess that's as light contact as I can be. in past I might have txt or called (worst idea) about it.

so, two very dry emails is about all. Each message was probably 1 sentence long. Not sure I broke the idea of N/C. do you agree...? or is there something I can improve on with this. basically, our life has a lot of moving parts, I'd be surprised if I could completely cut her off...


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14