thanks Blues! I've been following your story. I am impressed by your strength. thank you for your support. I can almost feel the support from all of you. It really helps.

To comment on Planet's and LTTB, people have been very supportive of the fact that I'd like to stay married and really have a wonderful life with Peg if possible. I've not bad mouthed her and will not. I tell them, someday it'd be great if I could introduce her to them and we'd be together. we'll see. I am letting go more today. part of my method is to remember that this person DID, in fact, reject me a lot during the marriage. I have to have some self respect and step back.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14