An incident occurred tonight where my wife wound up very upset about how I handled the situation. Does anyone have any insight on whether I should ask her how she would handle the same situation or use some initiative, do some reading and change my actions myself?


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014