I'm sorry, I totally know the feeling!! It's the flip flopping like this that really drives me crazy. Ok, you don't want me? Fine move out and let's move on. Oh, you don't know of you want a divorce? Then let's work on something! You know?
But, mine wouldn't even probably consent to a "just us" lunch right now - so, positive spin for you!
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013