Thanks for sharing 3-what a random act of kindness. I hate to admit this but in the days/weeks/months following BD I used to think of kind things that would be to service to others and say to myself "When my M is restored and I feel happy again, I can't wait to do things like that". Messed up, huh.

Well, I've done a lot of learning since then smile

Sorry to hear your S sadness. I can't imagine how their little worlds are turned upside down. My heart breaks for them.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014