Hey Paul-I caught up on your posts. You are very early on in this process and you've grown so much already. I liked reading that you are carrying yourself with more confidence and described your own fog during your marriage. We just keep learning about ourselves and growing.

Glad you're feeling independent. Good job on the no contact. It's so hard isn't it? But 3 is right. No contact sure beats contacting and rejection...that's the pits.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014