It's not that I think they won't be "ok" - although he lacks patience with them and is, in my opinion, too harsh at times - they are safe and nothing "bad" will happen. I just mean that I'm already going out every night to work out. He is in and out at a whim - I'm the only stable thing going right now. So when I'm not around, it's stressful on them - I've seen it. I would feel like I need to cut back on my working out should I start up some other thing... And I love my daily working out.
In any case, I just told him I have plans for Friday. He asked if this was "in revenge".....
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013
