Well, he was/is moping around being depressed and angry with the news of the delayed bonus. I mean do I swallow my feelings and yes, my insecurities about what's going on? In this example, the nagging feeling that his depression was linked to the potential delay in divorcing me.
But yes, I get your point. It just always so in my face. His withdrawness, coldness, unhappiness... I don't know why I try and bring anything up - it's never the response I am hoping for.
I texted my friend the text conversation I had with H and she said "are you surprised by his reaction?" And honestly, yes, every time this stuff comes to a head again, I guess I'm like, "wait, we're still here?" I don't know why.
He's getting ready to go out and drink with a divorced friend...
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013
