Well. I asked. And I guess I asked for it.

I just texted H and said "is the reason you are so depressed because you were going to use the bonus to divorce me and now that may be delayed?"

He said "That wasn't the plan, but I knew that it gives me that opportunity."

And then he said "I made me feel so powerless about the job and our situation to hear it would be delayed"

And then I said "I understand. I'm sorry you feel so powerless. I totally get why you would feel that way. I wish I could help."

No response. frown

Me, 39. H, 35.
3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities
BD Dec 2012
Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013