Laurie, it really is the devil I do, and the devil I don't. Thank you for joining in again, it is much appreciated.
For: the wife sees a lot more of the better me, the person who actually thinks about others and thanks them. Therefore can only be good for the sitch.
Against: she can then send another text asking about the paperwork or some other things that I don't want to think or talk about.

In some ways, neither option will make a difference to my present goals with her.

Ok, will give it a try: "W, thank you for your nice words".
Lets see what happens? PS: It has been 48 hours since the text came from the W.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.