Dear HWA, My response to your question regarding your W's friendly text, might be to consider a casual and short response if you choose to respond. Something as short and simple "thank you your nice words". Or, you can maintain a bit of "dark" and not respond. How might each of these options impact your present goals with her at this time?
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