Burning Heart and Dylis. My W is in a huge fog. Friends and family are not happy with her new found personality and life. They see she has become someone else that none of them like. So I need to accept that the W is struggling, very much with what she is going through. She also will not meet up with me, for the same reasons you talk about Burning Heart, the eyes. I can see how much guilt and love still would be in those eyes. So she just texts, to make her feel less vulnerable, I suppose. Your choice is simple: accept this is going to take a long time, detach, GAL and stand for your marriage. Or move on. She will say and do things you don't like and won't agree with. I have just signed legal papers to buy the houses from my W. I don't like that at all, and didn't want to do it. But I needed to for my future and possibly our future, if she allows it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
