"He replied since you don't agree to divorce, I have to move out. No couple who want to divorce still stay together. Our house has an extra bedroom and he can stay there which can save us a lot of money, but he doesn't want to. Anybody here can help me understand what is in his mind?"
There's no sense in trying to figure out what HE is thinking. He probably doesn't even know himself. Notice how he continues to blame YOU for how unhappy he is? Don't keep taking it.
The next time he starts blaming you for something, like it's YOUR fault he "has" to move out because you don't want a divorce, hold your hand up and in a firm tone tell him that he cannot blame you for not wanting to pursue a D. Tell him that you've never stopped him from pursuing it on his own and that he will not continue to blame you for his unhappiness.
Then walk off.
He's trying to reduce the size of the guilt that he feels by blaming you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
