bent not broken

[willbwell]

Looking for underdog...
As my signature says my d15 is dev delay. She's so sweet and so good and such a blessing. So genuine.
With this D in the process one of the items h and I will need to figure out is d15's long term care. She will never live independent. She goes to a great school right now where she can stay until she is 22.
There are options available for after she ages out but like most things very expensive.
probably live with me, but going into D, need to be able to show h the costs. I am doing my HW

one of the things my sister brought up is if something were to happen to me and I could not take care of d.
H would just want to hire someone. If I were to die, my family would want d15.They would not want some hired help to take care of her.
I have not had this discussion with h, but feel we should.

For the most part right now, d15 will stay 1 night with h. usually he will pick her up 4ish, go to dinner, watch a movie and go to bed. she is home by 9 the next morning.
I do all her school, dr, activities.
Its been my job.