Final phase of losing wife?

[kenva]

My attorney said I need to respond to her and the pre trial date in the next few days. I plan on giving her my settlement proposal tonight, which my coach said would be a 180 for me if I did. If we can discuss our matters without paying for attorneys my attorney said would benefit us and we wouldn't have to go to trial. I don't think my w has told her attorney that she has been seeing someone because if she did she wouldn't be pushing for a trial. I can subpoena him and prove adultery to get alimony from her. Again, she's living in LALA land. I am letting go. As hard as it is. I don't have to like it or like her now. Time is really not on my side now.