Thanks, that's a good point. I do think I need to reword a lot of what I say. Like last night, later, he was stewing about and not talking to me... I was getting ready for bed and I knew he was heading to do that soon... Normally we would still say goodnight to each other and it was obvious he wasn't going to... So I said, "are you not talking to me now?" To which he replied in a frustrated tone "I'm just in a bad mood!"
I probably put him on the defensive and turned the focus on me... Not intentional, but none the less....
Me, 39. H, 35. 3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities BD Dec 2012 Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013