I agree with AS- I think another poster on here who is a WAS mentioned the WAS will cycle through a lot of anger, especially when they start to see the very changes they wanted to see for so long. Like, why NOW? I think it may be insulting on some level. I actually can totally see this line of thinking and will be trying to remember it when I see in in my H.
As my DB coach said, they will test to make sure the changes are real, and we need to keep going and ignore it as best we can.
So, keep making your changes! Stay on it!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5