PM, I didn't mean to imply that you still needed to change things, it is just odd to me that you and your W are that close, but yet seemingly so far apart.
However, I have to say that I can't blame you for starting this acting divorced. My W and I are pretty crazy passionate and back and forth, and the one single thing that snapped her out of her fog was when she found out about a pretty girl that liked me. She had had her brief PA, and the thought of that actually is what triggered her confession, and coming back. For some reason, when she finally was faced with getting the divorce, and me moving on with new relationships, she decided she couldn't stand that.
I can't say that will happen with you, but my point is I don't think your W will have a clear picture until she really "loses" you.
And I guess all that says is you're doing the right thing, so keep living by your name!
